love is love
I love my love
my love is you
so I love you

(Drama Fever)

A special piece of topic dedicated to “the drama queens”

   Dear some sort of human being, why are so sensitive? I’m saying this because all you do with me is misunderstanding, who needs drama in life? Who on earth enjoys your company? When exactly are you planning to start making things simpler rather than making them complicated? Are you happy with yourself? Do you enjoy life? Do you know what fun is?

  Hey guys it’s me again Naza and in this blog we are going to talk about “Drama Queens”, I bet you've all experienced that feeling when a friend\co-worker is complaining and whining like 24\7 and you've all imagined yourselves stabbing them with a spoon, well not all of you maybe some weirdos like me and if you haven’t notice that maybe, just maybe YOU are the DQ thing. You see … I’m not trying to be a psychologist but let’s figure out whether this cute little creature who is reading my blog now is a “Drama Queen” or a “Happy Human Being”, if you at least do 4 of the following … :

1.gossip and manipulating to cause trouble and arguments

2.Drama queens have no sense of proportion

3.Sharing misery

4.Criticism is the drama queen's weapon of choice

5.Drama queens share -- dramatically -- the highs and lows of their lives, convinced that every detail is of great interest to their audience. And woe to the listener who doesn't respond in the expected manner. More drama will follow if you don't ooh and aah over her endless narratives

6.If there's one thing that the drama queen craves, it's being the center of attention. 

7.Drama queens expect perfection

  Then you are a total “Drama Queen”.......

  Let me see if there is some kind of medicine that will help you … fortunately I found a historical phenomenal mixture called some brains … you use it in the morning, at night, before going out, before talking and making decisions, after having a shower… almost all the time and everywhere. Dear Drama Queen, being close minded doesn't help you or other people with anything, you see … great people invent and innovate while normal people talk about invention and innovation and all what the close minded losers do is blaming everything for their failures. It’s all your decision, being the hottie or the naughty. If you have ever thought that life was unfair and a mistake wasn't your fault believe me you were just fooling yourself, I’m not asking you to cry like a baby and blame yourself for everything, I’m just asking you to join my world of happiness, a world that will make you strong and happy no matter what you were going through, application in my world only requires being a little open minded. No matter how wrong you've gone so far, the important thing is whether you are getting better or just giving up. It’s never right to live like this, you have the right to be happy and relieved like other, try to stop being a DQ you can go to a psychiatric and ask for help if you feel that you can’t do it alone, here are some things that may help you getting through your problem of being a Drama Queen:

1.Recognize when you are starting drama and stop it

2.Change your perspective to be happy about little things

3.Build a reputation for not participating in drama

4.Befriend only people with good energy that don’t promote or create drama

5.Be clear and straight with people

6.When it comes to people you know you love, always take an extra moment to reconsider, if the “problem” is actually a problem, if it’s worth making a big deal out of it

7.Accept drama, learn from it, and go on with life

(Love Or Oxygen)

  On a busy day, when everyone is running for their lives, and when you are back from work\school as you walk on the foggy busy street with many people walking or when you are quietly driving home, your memories flash back like a movie, and the feelings come back again, it's quite amazing when you remember that you helped a friend, a colleague or even a stranger, you get proud of yourself and realize that despite all the wars and differences we have there is still humanity and love between us, even if we disagree on politics, work, religion, opinions ..etc.. we are able to live together and love.

  love is our power, love is our slogan, even if we've gone through hard times, love is the only cure for our broken hearts and closed minds.

  We need to be a part of this, let's spread love, it might be hard, but if we try to have a big heart, we can spread love everywhere, from now on we shall mend broken relationships, smile to everyone although if they were mean, help as much as we can to spread love as much as oxygen ~~ WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

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For Somebody I Miss

Where have you been? Don’t you really care about how am I doing?

At least tell me how you are.

So you don’t miss me, right? I see, well you’ve never did.

But I think that’s just how you are, and I guess I like it.

Oh, old friend … I just wanted to say I still love you

I thought you were loyal, but now all I see is a blur of memories …

Remember that we were used to talk for hours day and night? Or when we were writing poems and telling stories?

Your familiar laughter is still making my heart race …

So please old friend, for the sake of our forgotten friendship, don’t disappoint me more as the new you will finish our memories off…

by: Naza

“Comfort Zone”

  I, me and myself are best friends of all time; here we go again trying to do the impossible which is letting go of the past.

  It’s been a long year of working hard since I was a senior, after finishing everything and being excited, I really miss everything about high school, no matter how hard it was but there are many things and people that I miss. This makes me kind of an anti-social person, and I would really like to stay in my comfort zone.

  Seriously all I do in real life is to meet a bunch of friends and then say goodbye to them, none of them stick around forever, they either travel, lose contact, hate me or even die. I really wish that I find someone there for me when I need help. But all I do is to make people happy and be the shoulder they cry on whereas when I cry … well, I only have my pillow …

  It’s really sad for me to know many people and have various good friends in reality while I've been feeling totally alone in my whole life. And it’s even worse when people get mad from you and judge you. So why shouldn't I just live in my comfort zone and leave everything in my life behind?

The answer is: “you just shouldn't!” you see human beings are made to communicate and live together, we are made to fight, love, laugh, cry, smile, feel …etc. Even if we dislike the fact of being lonely, we can still breathe and live. Even if we disagree we can say “we agreed to disagree”. Even if we are in a storm we’ll never lose the hope of seeing sunlight. And for me I’ll be pushing myself to join society rather than my “comfort zone” and maybe… just maybe I’ll find someone for me one day.